In The Long Run.

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"Criticizing another's garden doesn't keep 

the weeds out of your own."
~Author Unknown


What do we gain by hurting someone else with our words? Self-satisfaction? Empowerment? Maybe, for at least a moment. But in the long run, the only thing we gain from hurting someone else is masking our own faults. Oftentimes when we criticize others, it's because we see ourselves in that action and it is always easier to place blame on others than to admit our own faults.

It's time to clear the cobwebs and start taking responsibility for our own actions. Give it a whirl, and find your inner beauty.

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